Saturday, October 3, 2026

Love & Marriage: Huntsville Season 12 Episode 4 — The Past Just Pulled Up With Receipts, Chile!

Love & Marriage: Huntsville Season 12 Episode 4 — The Past Just Pulled Up With Receipts, Chile!

Baby, somebody lock the doors, hide the group chats, delete the old text messages and tell everybody in Huntsville to stop answering questions!

Because Love & Marriage: Huntsville Season 12, Episode 4, “What’s in the Past Is Present,” is already sounding like one of those episodes where everybody’s old business gets dragged right back into the living room.

And you know what?

That title tells us EVERYTHING.

“What’s in the Past Is Present.”

Translation: Whatever you thought was buried apparently wasn't buried deep enough.

Chile!

Season 12 has been slowly putting all the ingredients into the pot. Now Episode 4 looks ready to turn the heat all the way up.

We’ve got Destiny.

We’ve got Arionne.

We’ve got Martell.

We’ve got Tisha.

We’ve got Marsau.

We’ve got Sylvia.

And somewhere in Huntsville, somebody probably wishes everybody would simply mind their own business.

Unfortunately, they signed up for reality television.

So grab your drink, get comfortable and let’s talk about the mess that appears to be headed our way.

DESTINY VS. ARIONNE: SOMEBODY CALL SECURITY BEFORE THE PARTY EVEN STARTS

Let’s begin with what might become the biggest storyline of the episode: Destiny and Arionne.

The Fletchers apparently see a major showdown coming between these two women.

And my question is:

Does anybody NOT see it coming?

Because Stevie Wonder could see this tension from three counties away.

Arionne has already questioned Martell about his relationship and friendship with Destiny.

Now that Arionne is actually appearing on camera this season, the dynamic is completely different.

For years, Arionne was talked ABOUT.

Now she can talk BACK.

That changes everything.

People have had opinions about her.

People have discussed her relationship with Martell.

People have dissected her choices.

But now she has a seat at the table.

And chile, she did not come to Huntsville carrying a folding chair.

She came ready to sit at the MAIN TABLE.

The problem?

Destiny isn't exactly known for backing away from confrontation either.

So you've got two women with history, opinions and questions surrounding the same man.

What could possibly go wrong?

EVERYTHING.

AND MARTELL IS RIGHT THERE IN THE MIDDLE

Martell Holt somehow continues to find himself standing in the center of hurricanes that allegedly have nothing to do with him.

Sir.

HOW?

At some point, Martell needs to stop acting surprised when two roads he helped build eventually meet at the same intersection.

Arionne has questions about Destiny.

Destiny has her own relationship and history with Martell.

And Martell seems to want everybody to coexist peacefully.

Baby, this isn't a church picnic.

You cannot invite everybody carrying unresolved feelings into the same social circle and then act shocked when somebody starts asking questions.

This man wants peace while standing in the middle of the battlefield holding the matches.

Make it make sense!

And according to the official Episode 4 description, Martell is going to be blindsided by a betrayal.

Betrayal?!

Oh, OWN knew exactly what they were doing putting THAT word in the description.

Because now I'm sitting here wondering:

WHO betrayed Martell?

Was it a friend?

Was it somebody he trusted?

Was something said behind his back?

Did somebody reveal something he thought was private?

Baby, the word “betrayal” on reality television can mean anything from somebody exposing your business to somebody not inviting you to brunch.

So I'm keeping my eyes OPEN.

TISHA SAID SHE IS STANDING ON BUSINESS

Then we have LaTisha Scott apparently doubling down on some salacious allegations.

TISHA!

Ma’am!

Sometimes when somebody asks whether you really meant what you said, the safe answer is:

“I was emotional.”

But Tisha apparently said:

Did I stutter?

Okay!

One thing about Love & Marriage: Huntsville is that rumors never die.

They simply take vacations.

A rumor will disappear for three seasons, go to Miami, get a tan, change its hairstyle and return during Season 12 looking refreshed.

And now Tisha is reportedly doubling down.

That tells me this isn't going away quietly.

Once you repeat something on camera, now everybody wants answers.

Who told you?

When did you hear it?

Where are the receipts?

Why are you bringing it up now?

And most importantly:

Is it TRUE?

That is where reality television gets dangerous.

Because somebody can start with “I heard…”

And fifteen minutes later, we've got three confessionals, two flashbacks, a dinner argument and somebody storming out saying, “I'm DONE!”

SYLVIA AND MARSAU'S HISTORY ENTERS THE CHAT

Then there's Sylvia worrying about her history with Marsau.

Oh?

HISTORY?

Baby, whenever a reality show uses the word “history,” my eyebrow automatically goes up.

What kind of history?

Business history?

Friendship history?

Social history?

Something misunderstood?

Something everybody already knew?

Something nobody was supposed to mention?

Because those are VERY different types of history.

And before anybody starts writing a whole Lifetime movie in their head, we need to remember that concern or speculation isn't proof of anything.

But this is Love & Marriage: Huntsville.

If there is an unanswered question, somebody is going to ask it.

And if nobody asks it?

Production will probably find somebody who will.

Marsau has spent YEARS dealing with rumors and questions surrounding his marriage.

At this point, I don't know how Tisha doesn't wake up every morning asking:

“Okay, what are the internet streets saying TODAY?”

Their marriage has practically earned its own rumor department.

But what makes this storyline interesting is Tisha apparently doubling down while Sylvia herself is worried about her history with Marsau becoming an issue.

Those two pieces together?

Chile.

Episode 4 might have us rewinding scenes.

TISHA AND MARSAU HAVE ENOUGH GOING ON ALREADY

And let's not forget Marsau and Tisha came into Season 12 dealing with BUSINESS problems too.

Their first residential investment property has become a major storyline after things went sideways.

So you're telling me this couple is trying to deal with business trouble AND old allegations at the same time?

Where is the vacation episode?

Somebody send these people to Jamaica.

Actually, don't.

Because knowing this cast, somebody would argue before they even got through TSA.

“Why did you sit next to her on the plane?”

“I didn't choose the seat!”

“Well, why didn't you MOVE?”

Chile, never mind.

Stay in Huntsville.

ARIONNE ISN'T A GHOST ANYMORE

One of the biggest changes this season is Arionne actually being on camera.

That cannot be understated.

Her presence changes the entire show.

For years, viewers knew the name.

Other cast members talked about her.

Fans debated her.

Relationships were discussed around her.

But she wasn't physically participating in the group scenes.

Season 12 changes that.

Now when somebody says something about Arionne, there is a possibility that Arionne might be standing across the room ready to respond.

THAT is a completely different reality television environment.

You can't just tell your version anymore.

The other person has a microphone too.

And I think that's exactly why this Destiny situation has so much potential.

Arionne clearly has feelings about Destiny being connected to Martell.

Whether viewers agree with those feelings or not, she has them.

And Destiny isn't going to suddenly disappear because Arionne doesn't like the relationship.

So what does Martell do?

That is the million-dollar question.

MARTELL, PICK A LANE!

If your woman tells you she doesn't trust another woman around you, you've got a decision to make.

You can establish boundaries.

You can reassure your partner.

You can explain the friendship.

Or you can continue doing whatever you're doing until everybody ends up arguing at an event.

Guess which option reality television usually chooses?

Exactly.

The event.

There will always be an event.

An art show.

A brunch.

A dinner.

A birthday party.

A business opening.

A wine tasting.

Something!

Reality television people will know two cast members cannot stand each other and STILL say:

“You know what would bring everybody together? BRUNCH!”

NO!

It won't!

But please keep doing it because I need something to watch Saturday night.

DESTINY ISN'T GOING ANYWHERE QUIETLY

And let's discuss Destiny.

Destiny has had her share of ups, downs, friendships and fallouts on this show.

She understands how this game works.

So I don't expect Destiny to simply smile politely while somebody questions her relationship with Martell.

Especially if she feels like her friendship is being misrepresented.

That's where the real showdown could happen.

Arionne may look at the situation from the perspective of Martell's partner.

Destiny may look at it as:

“This is my friend, and I'm not changing my friendship because YOU have a problem.”

And there it is.

THE MESS.

Because both people can feel justified.

That's what makes a good reality TV conflict.

The best arguments aren't always hero versus villain.

Sometimes it's two people operating from completely different perspectives who both believe they're right.

Add Martell in the middle?

Baby, pass the popcorn.

THE FLETCHERS ALREADY KNOW WHAT TIME IT IS

The Fletchers apparently foresee the Destiny-Arionne collision.

Translation:

Everybody sees the train coming.

Nobody is getting off the tracks.

And we're all waiting for impact.

This is what cracks me up about these friend groups.

They'll say:

“I really hope they don't argue.”

Then invite both women to the same event.

Sit them four feet apart.

Serve alcohol.

Bring up the exact subject they're fighting about.

Then act shocked.

“Oh my God! Why are they arguing?!”

BECAUSE YOU PUT THEM AT THE SAME TABLE, NELL!

Allegedly!

LOL.

EVERYBODY IN HUNTSVILLE NEEDS A RECEIPT FOLDER

At this point, every cast member needs a folder on their phone called:

IN CASE OF REUNION.

Screenshots.

Text messages.

Dates.

Times.

Voice notes.

Contracts.

DMs.

Because nobody remembers anything the same way once the cameras start rolling.

One person says:

“That never happened.”

Then production flashes back to Season 7, Episode 12.

OUCH.

That is the beauty of being on television for years.

Your past has VIDEO EVIDENCE.

You can't rewrite history when production has the footage sitting on a hard drive.

And that's why the title “What's in the Past Is Present” feels perfect.

The past is NEVER really past on Love & Marriage: Huntsville.

THIS SEASON FEELS DIFFERENT

Season 12 feels like the show is attempting to shake up the dynamics.

Arionne being on camera alone changes things.

Old relationships are being revisited.

New alliances are forming.

Business struggles are becoming part of the conversation.

And people who once existed outside the main storyline are moving directly into it.

That's exactly what a long-running reality show needs.

You cannot tell the same story forever.

At some point, somebody new has to walk through the door.

And Arionne didn't just walk through the door.

She walked into YEARS of unfinished business.

BUT PLEASE DON'T LET THIS BECOME THE MARTELL SHOW

Here's my one concern.

Love & Marriage: Huntsville has a big ensemble cast.

So while the Martell-Arionne-Destiny storyline is juicy, I don't want every single episode revolving around Martell's relationships.

Give me everybody's mess!

I want business.

Marriage.

Friendships.

Family.

Money.

Rumors.

Reconciliation.

Fallouts.

Comebacks.

And somebody opening a business that will probably cause an argument at the grand opening.

Give me HUNTSVILLE.

Because this cast works best when multiple storylines collide.

MY PRE-SHOW VERDICT

Based on everything being teased for Episode 4, I'm watching.

Absolutely.

Destiny versus Arionne?

Watching.

Tisha doubling down?

Watching.

Sylvia worrying about her Marsau history?

Watching.

Martell supposedly getting blindsided by betrayal?

Baby, I'm already sitting down.

The question is whether Episode 4 actually delivers the fireworks being teased.

Because you know these previews will have us thinking somebody flipped a table, and then the actual scene is:

“Did you say that?”

“Yes.”

“Okay.”

COMMERCIAL.

Don't play with me, OWN!

I need the MESS.

FINAL THOUGHTS

Love & Marriage: Huntsville has reached the point where the history between these people is almost another cast member.

Old friendships matter.

Old relationships matter.

Old rumors matter.

Old business deals matter.

And things people said YEARS ago can suddenly become relevant again.

That's what makes Episode 4's title so appropriate.

What's in the past really is present.

And apparently, the past came dressed up, mic'd up and ready to film.

The Destiny-Arionne tension feels like it's only beginning.

Tisha doesn't appear ready to retract anything.

Sylvia has questions surrounding her own history.

Marsau's name is once again floating through a storyline.

And Martell?

Martell better put on his seatbelt because apparently betrayal is headed directly toward him.

Chile, Huntsville isn't giving peace.

It's giving:

“Previously on Love & Marriage: Huntsville…”

And somehow that “previously” goes back about six years!

REALITY RUNDOWN QUESTION OF THE DAY

Now I want to hear from YOU.

Who do you think is right in the Destiny and Arionne situation?

Should Martell put stronger boundaries around his friendship with Destiny?

Do you think Arionne has a reason to be suspicious?

What do you think about Tisha doubling down?

And WHO do you think betrays Martell?

Drop your opinion in the comments because I already know the Huntsville fans are going to have something to SAY.

And please keep it cute.

Well…

As cute as we can keep it while discussing Love & Marriage: Huntsville.

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Because if the past is present…

Baby, somebody better start deleting receipts!

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Who Is Naomi Baker? Tyler Perry Put a New Face Front and Center in Doing Life

Who Is Naomi Baker? Tyler Perry Put a New Face Front and Center in Doing Life

If you’re watching Tyler Perry’s Doing Life on Netflix and asking yourself, “Wait a minute—who is this actress?” you’re probably not alone.

Naomi Baker is one of those actresses who may have you reaching for your phone while the movie is still playing. She’s not necessarily a household name yet, and that might actually be part of what makes watching her interesting.

Instead of seeing the same familiar Hollywood faces over and over again, we’re getting an actress who is still building her rΓ©sumΓ© and getting an opportunity to step into a much bigger spotlight.

And I love seeing that.

Naomi Baker Didn't Take the Traditional Hollywood Route

What caught my attention about Naomi Baker is that her road into acting wasn't necessarily the traditional “I went to drama school at 18 and have been acting my entire life” story.

Baker has discussed starting out in modeling before seriously pursuing acting. After moving to Los Angeles, she began taking acting classes and working toward professional roles.

That makes her journey interesting because Hollywood can sometimes make it seem like you have to have everything figured out by the time you're 21.

You don't.

Sometimes people discover their lane later. Sometimes you start in one area of entertainment and realize another area is where you really belong.

Model today. Acting class tomorrow. Audition next week. Netflix movie down the road.

Life can change quickly when preparation finally meets opportunity.

Then Came Television

Before landing this bigger Tyler Perry opportunity, Baker began adding television and movie credits to her rΓ©sumΓ©, including an appearance in All American: Homecoming.

Those smaller roles matter.

Everybody wants the starring role, but most actors don't walk into Hollywood on Monday and have their name at the top of a Netflix movie poster by Friday.

There are classes.

There are auditions.

There are callbacks.

There are roles you don't get.

There are tiny parts where you're hoping somebody important notices you.

Then eventually, one opportunity can change the conversation.

For Naomi Baker, Doing Life could be one of those opportunities.

Tyler Perry Continues Giving New Actors a Shot

Say whatever you want about Tyler Perry—and people certainly have plenty to say—but one thing I've always found interesting about his productions is his willingness to put actors on screen who aren't necessarily Hollywood's biggest names.

That matters.

Hollywood loves recycling celebrities.

Sometimes you're watching a movie thinking, “Didn't I just see this person in three other movies?”

Chile, give somebody else an audition!

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A new face can make a story feel fresher because you're not watching the actor's celebrity. You're actually watching the character.

That's part of what works for me with Naomi Baker.

I wasn't sitting there thinking about twenty other characters she's played.

I was watching this performance.

Is Naomi Baker Perfect? No—and That's Okay

I'm not going to sit here and pretend every moment of a performance has to be Oscar-worthy.

She's still developing.

There are moments when you can see an actress finding her rhythm, especially when she's carrying a larger project.

But I actually enjoy watching performers at this stage of their careers.

You can see the potential.

You can also see where they might grow.

That's much more interesting to me than immediately declaring somebody either the greatest actress alive or a complete failure after one movie.

Give people room to develop.

Some of today's biggest stars weren't perfect in their earliest performances either.

This Is What Opportunity Looks Like

The bigger story here isn't just Naomi Baker.

It's opportunity.

There are thousands of talented actors taking classes right now.

Some are waiting tables.

Some are working regular nine-to-five jobs.

Some are making TikToks.

Some are doing community theater.

Some are auditioning for commercials.

And somewhere in that group could be tomorrow's television or movie star.

That's why stories like Baker's can be encouraging.

You don't necessarily need twenty years of major Hollywood credits before somebody gives you a chance.

You need training, persistence, preparation—and eventually somebody willing to say:

“Let's see what you can do.”

My Review

From what I'm seeing, Naomi Baker is someone worth keeping an eye on.

I'm not ready to crown her the next Angela Bassett after one major opportunity. Let's calm down! πŸ˜‚

But I definitely see potential.

She has presence.

She has a natural look on camera.

And most importantly, she's now getting an opportunity big enough for audiences to actually discover her.

That's half the battle in Hollywood.

Talent means nothing if nobody ever opens the door.

Now that Naomi Baker has gotten through that door, the question becomes:

What does she do next?

That's what I'm interested in seeing.

Will she continue doing Tyler Perry projects?

Will another Netflix production come calling?

Could television be her next move?

Could she eventually become one of those actresses we see everywhere and remember when people were asking, “Who is Naomi Baker?”

Time will tell.

Let's Talk!

Are you watching Tyler Perry's Doing Life?

What do you think about Naomi Baker's performance?

πŸ”₯ Do you think she carried the lead role?

πŸ‘€ Had you ever seen her acting before this movie?

🎬 Would you like to see Tyler Perry continue casting lesser-known actors in major roles?

And most importantly: Do you think Naomi Baker has what it takes to become a major Hollywood actress?

Drop your opinion in the comments because I already know somebody has something to say!

Follow Reality Rundown for more TV, movie, celebrity and entertainment reviews—because we're watching, we're reviewing, and yes, we're talking about ALL of it.

Martha Stewart on RHONY? Baby, It’s a YES From Me! πŸ˜‚πŸŽ

Martha Stewart on RHONY? Baby, It’s a YES From Me! πŸ˜‚πŸŽ

Okay, Bravo, now THIS is the kind of foolishness I can get behind!

I was watching The Real Housewives of New York City, and Martha Stewart popped into the mix, and baby… why was I immediately entertained?

I wasn’t expecting Martha to have me sitting there smiling, laughing, and thinking, “Wait a minute… why does this actually work?”

Because Martha Stewart is MARTHA STEWART.

We know her for cooking.

We know her for decorating.

We know her for entertaining.

We know her for making a dinner table look so beautiful that you’re scared to sit down and actually eat at it.

But Martha around the RHONY ladies?

Chile!

That is a completely different recipe.

And I’m eating it up.

MARTHA IS GIVING FRIEND OF THE SHOW ENERGY

I’m going to say it right now:

Martha Stewart is giving me honorary “Friend of the Housewives” energy.

LOL!

Now I’m not saying Martha needs to be holding an apple in the opening credits tomorrow morning. Let’s not get carried away.

But would I complain if she appeared every now and then?

Absolutely NOT.

Because there’s something funny about seeing somebody with Martha’s reputation and personality mixed into the Housewives universe.

RHONY is already built around New York personalities, money, fashion, social circles, friendships, arguments, dinners, events and women trying to figure out who said what about whom.

Then here comes Martha.

Calm.

Collected.

Funny.

And seemingly unbothered.

That contrast is what makes it entertaining to me.

Some Housewives enter a room like they have been rehearsing their entrance in the Uber for 45 minutes.

Martha can just show up and be Martha.

That’s enough.

SHE DOESN’T HAVE TO TRY SO HARD

And THAT is what I like.

Reality television has changed over the years.

Sometimes you can practically see somebody thinking:

“Okay, I need a viral moment.”

“I need a meme.”

“I need to start an argument.”

“I need to say something shady.”

“I need to throw a drink.”

“I need to storm away from the table.”

Baby, RELAX!

Sometimes the funniest reality television moments happen when people aren’t obviously trying to create reality television moments.

That’s what I enjoyed about Martha.

She has a natural presence.

She doesn’t need to scream across the restaurant.

She doesn’t need to toss a glass.

She doesn’t need to flip a table.

She doesn’t need to yell, “SECURITY!”

She can just sit there and say something with that Martha Stewart delivery, and somehow it becomes hilarious.

That’s a skill.

THE SHADE IS SERVED ON FINE CHINA

Martha’s kind of shade feels different.

It’s not paper-plate shade.

It’s not plastic-fork shade.

It’s not “we ran out of napkins at the barbecue” shade.

This is Martha Stewart.

The shade is being served on fine china with freshly cut flowers sitting in the middle of the table.

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She can say something completely calmly, and you’re sitting at home wondering:

“Wait… was that shade?”

YES!

I think it was!

And that’s my favorite kind.

You don’t always need to scream to read somebody.

Sometimes the quiet delivery makes it even funnier.

SHE FEELS RELATABLE IN A STRANGE WAY

This might sound crazy because Martha Stewart obviously lives a very different lifestyle than most of us.

But I still found her relatable.

Not necessarily because I’m waking up tomorrow morning to prepare a seven-course brunch in a kitchen bigger than somebody’s apartment.

Absolutely not.

I’m talking about personality.

There’s something relatable about somebody who has reached a point where they know who they are.

Martha has been famous forever.

She doesn’t need RHONY.

And THAT is exactly why she can be fun on RHONY.

There’s no desperation.

She doesn’t have to create a storyline.

She doesn’t have to worry about whether she’ll get another season.

She doesn’t have to suddenly invent an argument because the cameras showed up.

She can just participate, have fun and go home.

Meanwhile, the Housewives may still be discussing what happened three episodes later.

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MARTHA COULD WALK INTO THE RHONY REUNION AND CAUSE CHAOS

Now imagine Martha Stewart sitting at a RHONY reunion.

Andy Cohen turns toward her.

“Martha, what did you think when she said—”

Martha:

“I didn’t care.”

END SCENE.

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Commercial break!

Because sometimes that’s all you need.

Can you imagine everybody arguing for 20 minutes and Martha sitting there looking like she’s mentally planning tomorrow’s centerpiece?

Then somebody asks for her opinion.

Martha drops one sentence.

Everybody gets quiet.

THAT would be television.

RHONY NEEDS DIFFERENT TYPES OF PERSONALITIES

One thing I’ve always believed about reality television is that everybody cannot have the same personality.

If everybody is loud, nobody is loud.

If everybody is shady, the shade stops being surprising.

If everybody is fighting for camera time, eventually you can feel the competition through the television.

You need different energies.

You need the messy one.

You need the funny one.

You need the fashionable one.

You need the rich one.

You need the one who keeps receipts.

You need the one who forgets what she said five minutes ago.

And sometimes you need somebody like Martha Stewart who can float into the situation and completely change the energy.

That’s what makes an ensemble show work.

PLEASE DON’T OVERDO IT, BRAVO

Now here’s where I’m going to get a little shady.

Bravo, if people enjoy Martha, PLEASE don’t immediately overproduce the situation.

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You know how television works.

Fans like somebody for five minutes, and suddenly producers think:

“LET’S PUT THEM EVERYWHERE!”

No.

Sometimes less is more.

I Unfollowed After My Comments Kept Disappearing — If You Can’t Take the Heat, Get Out the Kitchen

I Unfollowed After My Comments Kept Disappearing — If You Can’t Take the Heat, Get Out the Kitchen

Chile, sometimes you have to know when to hit that UNFOLLOW button and keep it moving.

I’ve been watching Tracy Jvmea’s The Gay Is Just Expecting on YouTube, and normally I enjoy hearing different opinions. That’s the whole reason I watch commentary channels in the first place. I don’t need everybody on YouTube agreeing with me.

Where would the fun be in that?

But something happened in the comments that rubbed me the wrong way.

The conversation was about celebrity stylist Law Roach, and I disagreed with what was being said about his career. From what I understood, the argument was basically questioning how big of a stylist Law really is because he doesn’t appear to be styling a huge number of celebrities at the same time.

And I thought:

Wait a minute. What does the number of clients have to do with whether somebody is successful at their job?

So I left a comment.

Nothing crazy.

Nothing threatening.

Nothing disrespectful.

I simply disagreed.

And apparently my comment disappeared.

So I commented again.

And from what I could see, that one disappeared too.

Now chile…

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At that point, I’m sitting there looking at my phone like:

“Are we having a discussion or are we holding auditions for the Yes Ma’am Choir?”

Because there is a difference.

LET’S TALK ABOUT LAW ROACH

My point about Law Roach was actually very simple.

Success as a stylist isn’t necessarily about having 25 celebrity clients running around Hollywood at the same time.

Sometimes having a smaller roster of major clients who continue working with you for YEARS says more about your talent than having 50 people who work with you once and disappear.

That was my argument.

You don't have to agree with it.

Tracy doesn't have to agree with it.

The audience doesn't have to agree with it.

But that's what makes a comment section interesting!

One person says:

“I don't think Law is all that.”

Another person says:

“Baby, Law is THAT GIRL.”

Then somebody else jumps in:

“Well, I like his work with this celebrity, but I didn't like that outfit he put on somebody else.”

Now we have a conversation!

That's what commentary is supposed to be.

Everybody doesn't have to sit around the internet nodding their heads like dashboard bobbleheads.

YES!

EXACTLY!

YOU'RE RIGHT!

I AGREE!

Chile, NO!

Sometimes I'm going to disagree with you.

And guess what?

Sometimes you're going to disagree with ME.

I DON'T EXPECT EVERYBODY TO AGREE WITH ME EITHER

I have been creating content myself for years.

I've done YouTube.

I've written blogs.

I've posted opinions.

I've talked about reality television, celebrities, music and entertainment.

People have disagreed with me plenty of times.

And some of them disagree LOUDLY.

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That's social media.

If you're putting opinions on a public platform, people are going to have opinions about your opinions.

Now obviously there are limits.

If somebody is threatening you, harassing you, using slurs or repeatedly attacking people personally, that's different.

Delete it.

Block them.

Protect your space.

But disagreement?

Baby, that's the INTERNET.

And my comment wasn't meant to attack Tracy personally.

I was talking about the SUBJECT.

Law Roach.

Fashion.

Styling.

Celebrity clients.

That's it.

THEN MY COMMENTS STARTED DISAPPEARING

Here's where I got irritated.

After posting my opinion, I noticed my comments weren't staying up.

I don't know exactly what happened behind the scenes. YouTube can filter comments, creators can moderate them, and sometimes comments disappear for reasons viewers don't know.

But from my side of the screen, I posted my opinion and then couldn't see it anymore.

So after it happened more than once, I made my decision.

UNFOLLOW.

Not because Tracy disagreed with me.

That's perfectly fine.

I unfollowed because I didn't see the point of continuing to participate in a community where I felt like my respectful disagreement wasn't welcome.

I'm 58 years old.

I'm not about to spend my afternoon fighting with a YouTube comment section.

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Baby, I have blogs to write.

Books to promote.

Videos to make.

Music to work on.

Reality TV mess to discuss.

I don't have time to keep reposting the same comment trying to figure out where it went.

IF YOU CAN'T TAKE THE HEAT…

There's an old saying:

If you can't take the heat, get out the kitchen.

And social media is definitely a kitchen.

Sometimes that kitchen gets HOT.

When you give strong opinions, somebody is going to challenge them.

That doesn't automatically mean the person is a hater.

Sometimes they just think you're wrong!

Imagine that!

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We have gotten into this strange place on social media where some people seem to think disagreement equals disrespect.

It doesn't.

I can disagree with your opinion and still watch you.

I can disagree with your fashion review and still like your personality.

I can disagree with your celebrity commentary and still think you're entertaining.

That's what adults do.

AND I'M NOT CALLING FOR ANYBODY TO ATTACK THEM

Let me make something VERY clear because the internet loves turning a disagreement into World War III.

I am NOT telling anybody to go over to Tracy's channel and attack anybody.

Don't do that.

This is simply me explaining my experience and my decision.

They have every right to run their YouTube channel however they choose.

And guess what?

I have every right to decide what I watch.

That's the beauty of the internet.

They can moderate their channel.

I can unsubscribe.

Everybody goes home happy!

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There are MILLIONS of YouTube channels.

If one environment isn't for me anymore, I move along.

No petition.

No protest.

No dramatic press conference.

Just:

CLICK. UNFOLLOW. GOODBYE.

AND I STILL STAND BY MY LAW ROACH OPINION

And after all of this?

I still stand by the original point.

I don't judge a stylist's success simply by counting how many celebrities they're styling this week.

Longevity matters.

Relationships matter.

Influence matters.

The work matters.

If somebody has clients who trust them enough to continue working with them over the years, that says something.

You can disagree.

That's okay!

See how easy that was?

Nobody had to delete anything.

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FINAL THOUGHTS

I didn't stop watching because somebody had a different opinion about Law Roach.

I stopped watching because after my comments repeatedly disappeared, I no longer felt like participating.

Simple.

No beef.

No war.

No campaign.

I just took my view somewhere else.

Because viewers have choices too.

Content creators decide what happens on their platforms, and viewers decide where they spend their time.

That's the relationship.

And sometimes the healthiest response isn't arguing for three days underneath a YouTube video.

Sometimes you simply say:

“This space isn't for me anymore.”

Then you hit unfollow and keep it moving.

Now I want to hear from YOU.

Have you ever unfollowed a YouTube creator because you felt like respectful disagreement wasn't welcome?

And what do you think about my original Law Roach argument?

Does a stylist need a huge list of celebrity clients to prove they're successful, or is having loyal, long-term clients enough?

Sound off in the comments.

Just remember:

We can disagree without deleting each other from the conversation.

And chile…

If my opinion is too hot for the kitchen?

I'll happily take my plate somewhere else. πŸ˜‚πŸ½️

Friday, October 2, 2026

BLIND EYE: He Packed Up His Whole Life for Love?! Atlanta to the DMV — Chile, This Vlog Has Me STRESSED!

BLIND EYE: He Packed Up His Whole Life for Love?! Atlanta to the DMV — Chile, This Vlog Has Me STRESSED!

Chileeeee! πŸ‘€☕ I was minding my business, watching a vlog on YouTube, when suddenly I realized I wasn't watching a regular vlog anymore. Baby, I had accidentally tuned into Love & Hip Hop: U-Haul Edition!

Because WHAT is going on?!

Apparently, our good brother has himself a boyfriend. Yes, LOVE has entered the building! But here's the catch: we ain't seeing the boyfriend.

Sir?!

You telling us about the relationship. You're flying around for the relationship. You're packing boxes for the relationship. You're changing your whole ZIP CODE for the relationship...

But we can't see the man?!

Chile, at this point the boyfriend is giving "special guest star whose contract hasn't been finalized."

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Now, before anybody starts acting up in the comments, I'm not saying he HAS to show his boyfriend. Absolutely not. Everybody doesn't want their relationship plastered across YouTube, and keeping your partner private might actually be the smartest thing you can do.

But baby, you KNOW we're curious!

HE STOPPED WORKING?!

From what I understood watching the vlog, life apparently became overwhelming enough that he stepped away from working.

And that's where my auntie instincts kicked in.

Because relationships are cute.

Love is beautiful.

Romance is wonderful.

But them BILLS?!

Them bills don't give a damn about butterflies in your stomach!

The rent company isn't going to say, "Awwww, you're in love? Don't worry about this month."

The phone company isn't accepting kisses.

And the electric company definitely doesn't take "bae said he got me" as payment.

So I'm sitting there watching like:

Sir, what's the PLAN?!

Again, we only know what he's choosing to share online, so there could be plenty happening behind the scenes. But from a viewer's perspective, this storyline had me clutching my imaginary pearls.

ATLANTA TO THE DMV FOR LOVE?!

Now THIS is where the movie really started.

From what he shared, he's been traveling between Atlanta and the DMV area because of this relationship.

Do you know what popped into my head?

AIRFARE.

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Because baby, love might be free, but Delta, American, Southwest, Spirit and everybody else said:

"That'll be $387.42, please."

And LAST-MINUTE airfare?!

Chile!

You better love me from FaceTime until Tuesday when them prices come down.

I'm not paying emergency airfare every time somebody texts:

"I miss you."

I miss you too, baby.

See you on Zoom.

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Because flying back and forth for love can get EXPENSIVE. Tickets, bags, Uber rides, food at the airport—and you already know airport food acts like every chicken sandwich was personally prepared by BeyoncΓ©.

That little romance trip can turn into a whole car payment.

AND HE'S ONLY ABOUT 29?!

I believe he said he's around 29 years old, although don't quote me on that unless he confirmed it himself.

And the boyfriend?

From the impression I got, I was wondering if the boyfriend might be older.

Now THAT immediately made me curious.

Not because there's anything wrong with an age-gap relationship. Two grown adults can do whatever works for them.

But I want the TEA.

How did y'all meet?

Who approached who?

How long were y'all talking?

When did you realize this was serious?

Who said "I love you" first?

And most importantly...

WHO suggested somebody MOVE?!

Because there's dating.

There's being exclusive.

There's meeting the family.

And then there's:

"Baby, go ahead and rent that truck."

Sir?!

We skipped approximately six episodes!

THEN HE PACKED EVERYTHING UP!

This is where I almost dropped my phone.

Because apparently our good brother didn't just visit.

He didn't just take another romantic flight.

Baby packed his belongings and headed toward the DMV!

I said:

OH, THIS IS SERIOUS SERIOUS.

Boxes coming out.

Furniture getting moved.

Life getting packed.

And unless my eyes deceived me, it looked like we had some kind of rental moving truck situation happening.

Chileeeee!

You know a relationship has reached another level when somebody is behind the wheel of a rental truck questioning every decision they've made since kindergarten.

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Driving hours with your whole life packed behind you?!

That's not dating anymore.

That's a relocation package!

And I hope this relationship WORKS because unpacking after moving for love has to hit differently.

Imagine getting into an argument three weeks later and looking over at those boxes you still haven't unpacked.

Baby, I'd be sitting on that box like:

"I drove HOW MANY MILES for this?"

BUT HERE'S THE THING...

Underneath all my jokes, I actually understand why somebody would do it.

When you really believe you've found your person, sometimes you take a chance.

Sometimes you leave what's familiar.

Sometimes you move.

Sometimes you start over.

Sometimes you say, "I'm going to see where this goes."

And at 29—or whatever his confirmed age is—you still have plenty of life ahead of you to make bold decisions.

Could it work?

Absolutely.

Could it become messy?

Absolutely.

That's LIFE.

My only hope is that he keeps something for himself.

Keep your independence.

Keep your goals.

Keep some money put away.

Keep your friendships.

Keep your identity.

And PLEASE have a backup plan.

Because love should add to your life—not become your entire life.

AND ABOUT THIS MYSTERY BOYFRIEND...

Now sir...

I'm going to respect the privacy.

I'm going to mind my business.

I'm going to let that man stay off camera.

BUT...

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You can't give me 14 clues and expect me not to become Detective Olivia Benson!

Don't show his face.

Fine.

But can we get an elbow?

A hand?

A silhouette?

A cough from the kitchen?

SOMETHING?!

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Because right now this boyfriend is giving Bigfoot with a good credit score.

Everybody keeps talking about him, but WHERE IS HE?!

FINAL THOUGHTS

This vlog had everything.

Love.

Mystery.

Airline tickets.

A major life change.

Packing.

Moving.

A rental truck.

And one invisible boyfriend somewhere in the DMV minding his business while I'm over here asking 72 questions.

But I will say this: moving your entire life for somebody is a BIG decision.

I hope he's happy.

I hope the relationship is healthy.

I hope the move gives him whatever fresh start he's looking for.

And most importantly...

I hope that rental truck had unlimited mileage!

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Because chile, LOVE IS LOVE...

But them mileage fees ain't playing with nobody!

Now I need to hear from YOU.

Would you pack up your entire life and move to another state for somebody you're dating?

Would you fly back and forth between Atlanta and the DMV for love?

And could you date somebody while keeping them completely OFF your YouTube channel?

Drop your opinion in the comments because I KNOW y'all got something to say!

And if you're enjoying my messy little commentary, make sure you share the blog, subscribe/follow, and come back for more reality TV, YouTube tea, pop culture gossip and my completely unnecessary—but highly entertaining—two cents.

Because apparently we're not just watching vlogs anymore.

We're watching MOVING TRUCKS! πŸššπŸ‘€☕πŸ˜‚

#YouTubeTea #YouTubeDrama #VloggerLife #RelationshipTea #DMV #Atlanta #MovingForLove #YouTubeVlogger #PopCulture #GossipBlog #RelationshipDrama

Porsha Williams Just Pulled Up in Paris With Law Roach — Did She Get Herself a New Stylist?

Porsha Williams Just Pulled Up in Paris With Law Roach — Did She Get Herself a New Stylist?


Baby, somebody open the doors to the fashion closet because Porsha Williams has entered Paris Fashion Week — and she did NOT come alone!

Yes, THAT Porsha Williams.

And standing right there in the fashion mix was celebrity stylist Law Roach.

Now you already know how the internet works. Two famous people can't walk into the same fashion show together without everybody pulling out their magnifying glasses, screenshots, old interviews, and conspiracy boards.

But this time, there may actually be something to talk about.

Recent fashion coverage has described Porsha as one of Law Roach's newest clients after the two appeared together around the Schiaparelli show during Paris Fashion Week.

So naturally I have one question:

PORSHA, DID YOU HIRE LAW ROACH?!

Because if you did, honey, this could get VERY interesting.

Porsha Said Take Me to PARIS!

First of all, let's talk about the setting.

This wasn't Porsha and Law accidentally running into each other at Target.

They were in Paris.

At Fashion Week.

At Schiaparelli.

That is not exactly where you show up wearing the first thing you found hanging over the bedroom chair.

Fashion Week is serious business. Celebrities aren't just attending shows anymore. Every outfit becomes content. Every photograph becomes a headline. Every front-row seat becomes part of somebody's branding strategy.

And Porsha understands branding.

Whatever you think about her reality television drama, relationships or occasional social-media messiness, that woman knows how to get people TALKING.

Now she's stepping further into the high-fashion conversation.

And apparently Law Roach may be helping her do it.

Oh, this could be dangerous.

Enter Law Roach

If you're unfamiliar with Law Roach, where have you been?

Law has built a huge name in celebrity fashion, most famously through his long-running creative partnership with Zendaya.

Law doesn't simply put somebody in a cute dress and send them out the door.

There's usually a concept.

A theme.

A moment.

A STORY.

That's why his celebrity looks regularly become conversations online.

You don't just look at the outfit.

You discuss it.

You debate it.

You either love it or start typing, "Now what in the world is THIS?"

And honestly?

That's exactly what celebrity fashion is supposed to do.

So pairing Law's fashion brain with Porsha's personality could be reality-TV gold.

Porsha isn't somebody who disappears quietly into a beige dress.

She likes glamour.

She likes hair.

She likes drama.

She likes a BODY moment.

She likes walking into a room like somebody needs to turn the music down and LOOK.

Law understands how to take that kind of personality and turn it into a complete fashion story.

Is This Porsha's Fashion Reinvention?

This is the part I'm watching.

Because celebrities don't usually start working with major stylists just because they need something cute for brunch.

A new stylist can signal a new era.

Maybe Porsha wants more fashion-industry credibility.

Maybe she's looking toward more international appearances.

Maybe she wants to elevate her red-carpet image.

Maybe she just woke up one morning and said:

"I'm tired of looking good. I want to look EXPENSIVE."

Whatever the reason, Paris Fashion Week is one heck of a place to start.

And let's give Porsha some credit.

She looked like she belonged there.

That's important because Paris Fashion Week can humble people.

You can be the biggest reality star in Atlanta, Beverly Hills, New York or Potomac, but Paris does not care about your reunion receipts.

Fashion people will look at that outfit first.

And Law knows that world.

Now You KNOW the Housewives Are Watching

This is where my messy side enters the conversation.

Because somewhere, somebody from the Housewives universe saw those Paris pictures.

Don't play with me.

You KNOW they did.

Somebody zoomed in.

Somebody sent the photo to a group chat.

Somebody probably typed:

"Is that LAW ROACH with Porsha???"

And somebody else responded:

"Interesting..."

That one word — interesting — can start an entire Housewives season.

Because Housewives fashion has become its own competition.

The reunion looks.

The confessionals.

The press tours.

The red carpets.

The designer labels.

Everybody wants the fashion moment that gets reposted everywhere.

So if Porsha really has Law Roach helping shape her looks?

Ladies, check your closets.

But Let's Not Get Too Carried Away

Now before we start saying Porsha and Zendaya are about to be fighting over Law's calendar, calm down.

Working with a stylist doesn't automatically mean every single outfit from now until eternity will be styled by that person.

Celebrity styling relationships can involve specific events, campaigns, appearances or longer-term partnerships.

What we CAN say is that current fashion coverage has connected Porsha and Law professionally and described her as a new client.

And seeing them together at Paris Fashion Week certainly got everyone's attention.

As it should.

My Take on the Look

For me, the biggest win wasn't simply the clothing.

It was the placement.

Porsha being in Paris, attending Schiaparelli and appearing alongside one of the most recognizable celebrity stylists in the business changes the conversation around her fashion profile.

She's not simply giving us another Housewives reunion dress.

She's entering rooms where fashion itself is the main event.

That's a different game.

And I want to see where this goes.

Give me drama.

Give me couture.

Give me ridiculous shoes nobody can actually walk in.

Give me a hat so large Andy Cohen has to move his chair at the reunion.

Give me something!

If Porsha is going to have Law Roach involved in this fashion chapter, I don't want safe.

I want FASHION.

And What About Her Previous Styling Team?

Here's another interesting piece.

Porsha has obviously worked with other fashion professionals, including stylist Jeremy Haynes, who was credited with styling her for the Real Housewives of Atlanta Season 17 reunion.

So I'm curious what this Law Roach connection means going forward.

Is Law taking over?

Is this specifically for Paris and selected high-fashion events?

Will Porsha work with multiple stylists depending on the occasion?

Those details may become clearer as she makes more appearances.

But one thing is already clear:

People are paying attention.

Porsha, You Better WORK

I have to give Porsha this one.

Showing up at Paris Fashion Week alongside Law Roach is a MOVE.

Whether this becomes a long-term fashion partnership or a selective collaboration, Porsha has successfully made people curious about what she's going to wear next.

And that's half the battle.

Fashion should make us talk.

Reality television should make us talk.

Porsha Williams definitely knows how to make us talk.

Put all three together?

MESS.

Beautiful, expensive, couture MESS.

And I'm here for the show.

Now I need to hear from YOU.

Do you like Porsha Williams working with Law Roach?

Do you think Law can take Porsha's fashion to another level?

Did you love her Paris Fashion Week look, or were you looking at your phone thinking, "Porsha...baby...we need to discuss this"?

And here's the messy question:

Which Real Housewife would YOU want Law Roach to style next?

Drop your opinion in the comments because I already know the fashion police are going to have something to say.

And if you love reality-TV news, celebrity fashion, Housewives gossip and a little harmless shade with your morning coffee, follow the blog, share this post and come back for more Reality Rundown!

Because when reality TV and high fashion collide, we're going to TALK about it.

Put Some Respect on My Roach’s Name! You Don’t Need 100 Celebrity Clients to Be THAT Stylist

Put Some Respect on My Roach’s Name! You Don’t Need 100 Celebrity Clients to Be THAT Stylist

Okay, everybody, pull up a chair because apparently we need to have a little fashion-family meeting! πŸ˜‚☕️

I keep hearing people talk about celebrity stylist My Roach and how he only styles a few people.

And?

AND?!

Since when did you need to style half of Hollywood before people were allowed to call you successful?

Baby, sometimes having a few major clients is better than running around Hollywood with 75 people on your client list and not doing anything memorable with ANY of them.

Let’s talk about it.

My Roach Knows What He Is Doing

Whether you personally love every outfit or not, My Roach has built a name for himself in the fashion and celebrity world.

That matters.

Fashion is subjective. One person will look at an outfit and scream, “ICONIC!”

Another person will look at the exact same outfit and ask, “Who let her leave the house like that?”

That’s fashion!

But My Roach understands something bigger than simply putting expensive clothes on famous people. Styling is about creating a moment.

When your client walks onto a red carpet, people should stop.

People should talk.

People should post pictures.

People should argue.

And sometimes people should be sitting at home screaming, “WHAT IN THE WORLD IS SHE WEARING?!”

Because guess what?

You’re still talking about it!

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That’s the game.

“But He Only Styles A Few People!”

This argument cracks me up.

People act like a stylist needs a celebrity client list longer than a Cheesecake Factory menu before we can take them seriously.

No!

Sometimes being selective is part of your brand.

If you have several major clients who trust your vision, repeatedly hire you and bring you into important fashion moments, you’re doing something right.

Period.

You don't need to style every actress, singer, reality star, influencer, rapper, athlete and somebody’s cousin from TikTok.

Sometimes LESS is MORE.

And honestly, working closely with fewer people can create stronger fashion partnerships.

You learn the person.

You learn their body.

You learn their personality.

You learn what photographs well on them.

You learn when to push them outside their comfort zone and when to leave that experimental outfit hanging right there on the rack.

Because every fashion risk does NOT need to see daylight.

Some of those outfits need to stay in the showroom.

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And Then There’s Kim Kardashian...

Now this is where the conversation gets interesting.

There has been plenty of chatter surrounding Kim Kardashian and My Roach, including talk about big money being involved in bringing a major stylist into the picture.

And when we're talking tens of thousands of dollars for somebody's expertise, I'm looking around like:

“So we're still pretending this person isn't important?”

COME ON NOW!

If somebody is willing to spend serious money to have you involved in their fashion world, clearly they believe you bring something valuable to the table.

And let me say something else.

I think celebrity and stylist relationships can benefit BOTH people.

That's not an insult.

That's BUSINESS.

A major celebrity gives a stylist visibility.

A talented stylist helps the celebrity create memorable looks.

The celebrity gets photographed.

The stylist gets credited.

The fashion blogs start talking.

Social media starts arguing.

Everybody gets engagement.

Everybody gets publicity.

Everybody goes home happy.

Well...

Except the people fighting in the comments section.

They're still typing three hours later.

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They Might Need Each Other

And I'm going to say something that might get me in trouble.

Maybe Kim needs My Roach.

And maybe My Roach benefits from Kim.

Why can't both things be true?

People always want entertainment relationships to have one person who is supposedly more important than the other.

But successful creative relationships are usually collaborations.

A stylist needs somebody willing to wear the vision.

The celebrity needs somebody capable of creating the vision.

That's teamwork.

If I make you look fabulous and you give my work one of the biggest platforms in entertainment, we BOTH won.

Now pass me my check.

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Stop Measuring Success By Numbers

This is something that goes beyond My Roach.

Social media has convinced everybody that numbers are the only measurement of success.

“How many followers?”

“How many clients?”

“How many views?”

“How many celebrities?”

“How many likes?”

Baby, calm down!

Quality still matters.

Impact still matters.

Longevity matters.

Relationships matter.

Your reputation matters.

You can have one million followers and nobody wants to hire you.

Meanwhile, somebody with a fraction of your following could be booked, busy and paying every bill on time.

Who's winning then?

Exactly.

And Those Sunday YouTube Videos?

Now THIS is another reason I'm giving My Roach his flowers.

He gets online.

He talks fashion.

He gives opinions.

He gives personality.

And people watch.

Some of those videos can generate major attention and huge view counts.

That's important because today's stylist doesn't necessarily have to stay behind the scenes.

Why should they?

If you have knowledge, personality and an audience interested in hearing what you think, turn the camera on!

Talk about the clothes.

Talk about the red carpets.

Talk about Hollywood.

Talk about what worked.

Talk about what didn't.

Give us the fashion tea!

That's another form of branding.

People aren't simply following the clothes anymore.

They're following the PERSON behind the clothes.

And My Roach understands that.

My Roach Is All That and a Bag of Chips

Listen...

I could be wrong.

Fashion is subjective.

Maybe you're reading this saying:

“Spencer, absolutely NOT!”

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And that's okay!

But from where I'm sitting, My Roach is all that AND the bag of chips.

Maybe even the little drink that comes with the lunch special.

I'm just saying!

You don't have to like every single thing somebody does to recognize talent.

I certainly don't love every celebrity fashion look I see.

Some outfits deserve awards.

Some deserve applause.

And some deserve to be quietly returned to the designer with a handwritten apology.

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But when someone consistently gets people talking about fashion, that person is doing something right.

Fashion Is Supposed to Start Conversations

That's the part people sometimes forget.

Fashion isn't always supposed to be safe.

Imagine if every celebrity walked onto every red carpet wearing the same little black dress.

BORING!

Give me feathers.

Give me drama.

Give me a ridiculous train requiring four assistants.

Give me a hat so big somebody sitting three tables away can't see the stage.

Give me GLAMOUR!

Give me something!

I'd rather argue about an outrageous fashion moment than stare at another perfectly acceptable outfit that I'll forget five minutes later.

And stylists help create those moments.

Give People Their Flowers

We also have this strange habit of waiting until somebody retires before acknowledging their work.

Then everybody suddenly becomes a lifelong fan.

“Oh, they were legendary!”

“Oh, nobody did it like them!”

“Oh, they changed the game!”

Where were y'all when they were actually WORKING?

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Give people their flowers while they're still creating.

You can critique somebody and still respect their accomplishments.

You can dislike an outfit and still acknowledge the stylist's influence.

Both things can exist at the same time.

Now I Want to Hear From YOU

Okay, I've said my piece.

Now it's your turn because I already KNOW somebody has an opinion about this.

Do you think My Roach deserves more respect as a stylist?

Does having a smaller celebrity client list matter to you?

Do you think working with someone as famous as Kim Kardashian elevates a stylist's brand, or does a great stylist elevate the celebrity just as much?

And most importantly...

Are you watching those Sunday YouTube videos?

Because I need to know who's sitting there with the snacks listening to the fashion tea with me! πŸ˜‚πŸΏ

Sound off in the comments.

Agree with me.

Disagree with me.

Bring your fashion receipts.

Just keep it cute because we're talking clothes — we're not going to Fashion World War III!

And if you enjoyed this post, SHARE IT with somebody who loves celebrity fashion, Hollywood gossip and a little harmless mess.

Because around here, we don't just look at the outfit.

We want to know WHO styled it, WHY they chose it, HOW much drama it caused and WHAT everybody is saying afterward.

Now THAT'S fashion entertainment.

#MyRoach #KimKardashian #CelebrityStylist #CelebrityFashion #FashionTea #HollywoodFashion #CelebrityGossip #PopCulture #FashionTalk #YouTube

Love & Marriage: Huntsville Season 12 Episode 4 — The Past Just Pulled Up With Receipts, Chile!

Love & Marriage: Huntsville Season 12 Episode 4 — The Past Just Pulled Up With Receipts, Chile! Baby, somebody lock the doo...