Did NeNe Just Misgender TS Madison? What We Need to Talk About…
📍 Posted on Reality Rundown | July 2025
👀 What Happened?
In a recent episode of The NeNe Leakes Show, what started as a lively conversation between NeNe Leakes and TS Madison took an uncomfortable turn. Fans and LGBTQ+ advocates noticed something shady: NeNe seemingly referred to TS Madison in ways that implied she still views her as a man.
Now, before we jump to conclusions, let’s break this down because this moment hit deeper than just a bad take on daytime TV.
🎤 TS Madison: A Trailblazer, Not a Punchline
TS Madison is a proud Black trans woman, media personality, and advocate who’s been breaking barriers for years. From her viral moments to major hosting gigs and her new podcast Outlaws, Madison has always stood in her truth.
So when NeNe seemed to sidestep Madison’s gender identity—laughing off the idea of dating a man who’s been with a trans woman—many took it as a form of public misgendering. TS didn’t lash out but instead used the moment to educate, clarify, and call for deeper awareness.
“Just because you knew me before doesn’t mean I’m not me now,” Madison said. “I didn’t transition for fun or fame—I transitioned to live.”
💥 Let’s Be Real: Was NeNe Being Transphobic?
This is the hot-button question everyone’s asking. Did NeNe Leakes truly see TS Madison for who she is, or did she fall into the trap of outdated thinking?
To be fair, NeNe didn’t call TS Madison a man outright. But her language—her tone, hesitation, and side-eyes—told on her. And let’s be honest, NeNe is not new to controversy, but this one struck a nerve because it reflects a larger issue:
Why are some people still struggling to respect trans women as women?
Is it ignorance? Is it ego? Is it because folks want to be "real" but don’t want to be respectful?
🔥 The Internet Reacts
Twitter and TikTok lit up:
- “NeNe needs a crash course in Gender Identity 101.”
- “Madison kept it classy, but that was shade with a side of disrespect.”
- “If a man slept with a trans woman, why is that NeNe’s business to judge?”
Reddit threads ran wild. Some defended NeNe, saying she was "just being real" while others said there’s nothing real about being reckless with someone’s identity.
👁️🗨️ So What Do We Learn from This?
This isn't just about NeNe or TS—it’s about all of us.
We have to ask:
Are we truly respecting people’s identities or just pretending until the conversation gets uncomfortable?
It’s not enough to say “I support the LGBTQ+ community” while misgendering someone or laughing at their experiences. Respect is not performative—it’s intentional.
💬 Sound Off in the Comments:
- Do you think NeNe Leakes was being transphobic, or just misunderstood?
- Should celebrities be held more accountable when they’re in positions of influence?
- How can conversations like this lead to more awareness and empathy?
💄 Bottom Line:
TS Madison stayed poised. NeNe stayed NeNe.
But for everyone watching… it’s time to do better.
#RespectTransWomen #TSMadison #NeNeLeakes #RealityRundown
