📚 Silver Struggles and Go Medals” — A Golden Tale of Friendship, Fabulousness, and Finding Yourself Again
In a literary world where youth often takes center stage, Silver Struggles and Go Medals delivers something refreshingly different: a story that embraces the rich complexities, fierce wisdom, and sparkling humor of Black gay men in their golden years. Set against the vibrant, ever-changing backdrop of Chicago, this novel shines a compassionate spotlight on friendship, aging, resilience—and the type of tea that only decades of lived experience can brew.
🏙️ The Setting & Stars of the Show
Meet Xavier and Maurice—two lifelong best friends with drastically different financial realities but equally bold spirits. Xavier is living the luxe life as a retired real estate mogul with a penthouse view and a legacy built from the ground up. Meanwhile, Maurice, a former freelance photographer with a heart of gold and a closet full of vintage flyness, is navigating retirement without a financial cushion—but never without flair.
These aren’t just characters. They feel like people you know. The uncle who always got the party started. The neighbor who had “a man for every mood.” The friend who saw you at your lowest and lifted you anyway.
💅 Maurice: The Real Main Character Energy
Maurice, despite his money woes, walks through the world like a man in high heels and higher spirits. He’s stylish, sassy, and full of wisdom (solicited or not). He may not have a 401(k), but he’s got charm, stories, and a wardrobe that could outshine a Pride parade.
But beneath his shine lies a real vulnerability—a reminder that style can’t always hide the pain of what wasn’t planned for.
⚖️ Real Talk: Regrets, Health Scares, and What Money Can’t Buy
Xavier and Maurice both face moments that shake them: health scares, fears about their legacies, and long-buried regrets from their youth. Through it all, it’s their bond—messy, deep, and loyal—that keeps them afloat. Their friendship isn’t just a plot point; it is the plot.
Their dynamic shows us that sometimes your chosen family ends up being more ride-or-die than blood ever could.
✨ Enter the Wild Card: A Young Gay Man with Big Dreams
Just when you think you know where the story is going, a young, ambitious gay man steps into their world. His arrival stirs the pot, forcing both Xavier and Maurice to confront their own beliefs, dreams deferred, and what it truly means to leave behind a legacy.
He doesn’t just shake things up—he opens their hearts again.
💖 Final Thoughts: A Love Letter to Aging, Community & Keeping It Cute
Silver Struggles and Go Medals is not about slowing down—it’s about living louder, loving harder, and laughing longer, even as the knees start cracking and the club nights turn into brunches. It’s about being seen, even when the world wants to make you invisible after 50.
This novel is funny, wise, and full of shade and soul. A must-read for anyone who believes that friendships can save your life—and that the second act might just be the fiercest one yet.
💬 Question for You:
Would you want a friendship like Xavier and Maurice’s? Or have one already? Tell us below!
Black gay fiction, aging gracefully, LGBTQ+ books, friendship novel, Chicago novels, gay men over 50, Black friendship stories, resilience, community stories, chosen family fiction
