🌀 “Huda Is Your Peace”? Sis, You Must Be the Storm: A Real Talk Reflection on Repeatedly Toxic Behavior
Let’s talk about something that’s been sitting heavy in my spirit ever since I heard it—someone actually said, “Huda is my peace.” Excuse me? Peace? As in calm? As in serenity? As in “Namaste and chill vibes only”? Because the Huda I’ve seen in action is giving more category 5 hurricane with a side of emotional debris than peace.
Now don’t get me wrong—everyone has their low moments. We’re all human. We all go through it. And a bad day (or three) does not define your entire character. But when those moments become the soundtrack to your life, we have to ask: is this just a bad day, or is it a pattern?
Because let’s be real: Huda’s behavior? Toxic. Repeatedly. And y’all know I don’t throw the word “toxic” around lightly. There’s a difference between having a breakdown and being the breakdown every time the energy shifts. And the way some folks bend over backward to excuse it? Whew.
Now, I will give her props where they’re due: she didn’t engage with that guy last night, and I’m genuinely proud of her for that. Growth doesn’t always come in loud, glittery transformations—sometimes it’s in the silence, the non-reaction, the deep breath before the storm. But let’s not crown someone just for not causing a scene when we know they’ve built a whole season’s worth of episodes before that.
Therapy isn’t an insult—it’s a gift. It’s not about fixing someone for others. It’s about healing for yourself. And truthfully? Huda needs it. Deeply. Because carrying trauma, resentment, or chaos like a designer bag may look fashionable in some circles, but baby, it’s not sustainable.
So to the one calling her your peace—are you at peace, or just numb to What do you think? Have you ever mistaken someone’s drama for depth? Let’s talk in the comments. 👇
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